Let's Be Real

I haven’t met many people who let others see who they truly are. In more ways than one people struggle with authenticity and confidence within themselves, so to be vulnerable with others is not only a rarity for them, it can be somewhat scary and anxiety-inducing. As a result, people become good at hiding behind metaphorical masks of one kind or another, afraid that if anyone really knew them, they wouldn’t be loved or accepted for their true self.

In a world of broken hearts, dysfunctional families, wounded souls, and failed relationships, there is a tendency for us to portray ourselves in the way that we think others want us to be, in our effort to be accepted or to fit in.  We can get so good at faking it with others that we end up fooling ourselves as well, keeping us in a sort of bondage and making us miserable. What we end up doing is cheating ourselves, and others, out of beautiful, meaningful, healthy relationships all for the sake of trying to protect our hearts. 

Once someone knows they are unconditionally loved, fear of rejection fades and the ability to become comfortably vulnerable around others, without needing approval or a sense of acceptance, interactions and relationships with others become healthy and fulfilling. With our masks removed, our light is free to shine through us, giving us the ability to see beneath the masks of others while enabling us to love them -- right where they are-- without the fear of being rejected. As we grow in our love and compassion towards others the desire to love and encourage them will overcome any tendency to withdraw and hide.

So, are you ready to stop hiding and just be real?

Reflect:

Do you have a tough time connecting with others on a personal level?

Do you find yourself unable to be vulnerable around others in small group settings or even one-on-one? 

Would you consider yourself someone who genuinely loves others, or do you struggle?

Do you trust that you are loved for whom you were created to be? 

Emotional health is another important part of our overall well-being. Many people are unable to function at optimal levels in different areas of life not knowing that the root cause is their emotional "dis-ease" or dysfunction.

If you can relate to any of what is described above, send me an email to schedule a call to see if you could benefit from a personal, certified Life Coach.

I would love to help you find the REAL you so you can live in freedom!